Why not getting married is a good idea.

Why not getting married is a good idea.

In life when people find someone, whom they love and wants to spend rest of the life with them, they get married. Marriage brings new and different responsibilities. Now you have to share everything, now you have to think about the other person, take care of them, own their tensions and difficulties. Later on you will have kids, then you will have to look after them, they will be your responsibilities. You will have to manage and make time for everyone. You will hardly have any alone time. You have to take care of your wife/husband and kids problems, which never ends. Now this all are bad parts. There are also good parts. You will have a family, there will be someone who will look after you, someone who will care for you, someone who will wait for you.

Everyone dreams of having a fun loving happy family, but very few people has a happy family. Quarrels in the family happens all the time. At some point someone will disagree and a fight starts. That's the thing, in this world every person has his own thinking. We all are different, we all think in a different way, we all have different beliefs. Quarrels happen because we all have different perspective on many things. A person who is not married doesn't face quarrels much, as there won't be anyone to disagree with him/her. That person won't have any kind of responsibility related with an another person. He/she can also have alone time in peace, he/she can go anywhere they want, there will be no one to stop him/her.

People fear when they are in love. They fear that they may lose the person they love. Living in that fear they do stupid things and later on find themselves in depression. They become devastated at last. When you are single, you won't have the fear to lose your love, you are free to do whatever you want, no one will stop you, judge you or mock you. You are not bound with responsibilities, fear, attachment anything. That's why it's a good idea to never get married, because you will be free. Yes, you may feel lonely in future, and that's the drawback but if you like living alone, you like not being judged, you want to be free from responsibilities, you want to do whatever you want, then not getting married is a good idea for you.